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I had sex for the first time (not my first time) with my girlfriend and it was unexpectedly rough and painful. I’m in agony today and just not sure whether to accept her apology or believe her when she says it was the alcohol and not what she’s into at all.
We were both a bit nervous because this was our first time together. It started off really nice but because she was nervous she was drinking quite heavily. She tried to get me to drink too and I did a bit. I was a little tipsy but not drunk.
She got very drunk and became unexpectedly sexually aggressive
and rough. It was unexpected and quite a turn on to begin with. She is taller, heavier and stronger than me.
I am slim and tall, she was quite heavy nearly broke my dick when she was on top and slipped.
What started off as light spanking and pinning her down got really out of hand. She threw me on bed, kissed me roughly. Turned me like a chapati
i just dont know if she wasnt raping me and I’m not accusing her of that but she scared me a bit about how out of control she got.
She was basically getting off on totally over powering and dominating me. She wasn’t just trying to dominate me she wanted me to submit to her. She couldn’t seem to stop herself. She actually spanked me couple of times.
She’s very emotional and got upset half way through and I tried to comfort her. After I tried to comfort her she felt better but then got really rough. I don’t want to go into details but I’m hurting in multiple places today and it’s not a normal - fucked all night was a bit rough ‘sore’ - it’s like I was manhandled, almost bdsm stuff.
The things she was saying to me were very bdsm - or what I imagine bdsm to be. It was like something from a porno. At one point she actually went to slap me across the face but saw I was scared and stopped. I saw red. That slap left fingers on my face
This morning she apologised and said she didn’t mean to hurt me and it was the alcohol. She said she can’t remember doing most of what she did and doesn’t understand why she did it. She said she likes soft, gentle sex and it won’t happen again.
Can alcohol make you really dominant and aggressive in bed and want your partner to submit to you? She says she’s not into that at all but she was very into last night. I was quite into most of it but not when she got too rough and not to the point that I’m struggling to walk and can’t comfortably briefs today, hurts down there
I’ve told her I’m ok with most of it but just to dial it back a bit and not hurt me. She is insisting she’s not into rough sex at all and I’m confused.
What do I do? In between ut all I was worried she my slip my dick in her ass.
What if she does more than that?
Freaking out, she is a beautiful girl. Never had such beautiful girl before. Advice please...
We were both a bit nervous because this was our first time together. It started off really nice but because she was nervous she was drinking quite heavily. She tried to get me to drink too and I did a bit. I was a little tipsy but not drunk.
She got very drunk and became unexpectedly sexually aggressive
and rough. It was unexpected and quite a turn on to begin with. She is taller, heavier and stronger than me.
I am slim and tall, she was quite heavy nearly broke my dick when she was on top and slipped.
What started off as light spanking and pinning her down got really out of hand. She threw me on bed, kissed me roughly. Turned me like a chapati
i just dont know if she wasnt raping me and I’m not accusing her of that but she scared me a bit about how out of control she got.
She was basically getting off on totally over powering and dominating me. She wasn’t just trying to dominate me she wanted me to submit to her. She couldn’t seem to stop herself. She actually spanked me couple of times.
She’s very emotional and got upset half way through and I tried to comfort her. After I tried to comfort her she felt better but then got really rough. I don’t want to go into details but I’m hurting in multiple places today and it’s not a normal - fucked all night was a bit rough ‘sore’ - it’s like I was manhandled, almost bdsm stuff.
The things she was saying to me were very bdsm - or what I imagine bdsm to be. It was like something from a porno. At one point she actually went to slap me across the face but saw I was scared and stopped. I saw red. That slap left fingers on my face
This morning she apologised and said she didn’t mean to hurt me and it was the alcohol. She said she can’t remember doing most of what she did and doesn’t understand why she did it. She said she likes soft, gentle sex and it won’t happen again.
Can alcohol make you really dominant and aggressive in bed and want your partner to submit to you? She says she’s not into that at all but she was very into last night. I was quite into most of it but not when she got too rough and not to the point that I’m struggling to walk and can’t comfortably briefs today, hurts down there
I’ve told her I’m ok with most of it but just to dial it back a bit and not hurt me. She is insisting she’s not into rough sex at all and I’m confused.
What do I do? In between ut all I was worried she my slip my dick in her ass.
What if she does more than that?
Freaking out, she is a beautiful girl. Never had such beautiful girl before. Advice please...
